Yes, all of this! I tend to think about My Fandoms as the sorts of things that if they came in to me on the pitch hit list for Yuletide, do I know enough about them to be able to pick them up on behalf of someone else. Because that category is a lot more broad than the ones where I've curated a specific list of things I want as a gift. But how do you I quantify what that list is other than linking to like my Goodreads page and my Netflix/Hulu viewing history, you know?

On the young whippersnappers in fandoms I will admit to being guilty of joining and then just immediately leaving Discord communities when I realize the introductions are all from people under 21. Just... I do not belong here and an immediate sense of DANGER DANGER WILL ROBINSON